Wake up; it could be now or never.

Have you ever wondered why about 5% of the population earns about 95% of all the money? I asked myself this for close to 5 years and I will share with you my story. 

When I was 12, I had big dreams, I guess most of did actually have big dreams; To drive a big car, own a big house with a big swimming pool, run a successful business, start up a charity organisation, become a successful family man with a happy family and leave a legacy that will be echoed years to follow. Yes, leave a mark on this planet. At the time my mind knew no limitations nor did it know of any real challenges coupled with achieving these dreams, in fact if you told me; boy  keep dreaming, the sky is the limit, I would look you straight in the eye as tell you that the sky was not my point of view. I would regard your words an understatement.

So about 10 years latter I realised that I had no Lamborghini in my parking lot, in fact I had no packing lot because I had no house.(I don't have one as of today). I had no family of my own; I mean wife and kids because I was still young; so for that I would pass but my net worth was in negatives. That's when the Billion dollar question held me captive ; "Am I living my dreams?" You guessed it I was not, because if I was I would have done my studies from Harvard University, authored a best seller, bought myself a big house in the city and tested the good things life has to offer. So what happened to those dreams, did I give up on them, did I just forget all about them or was I "dreaming" as most people put it?

Let me give you a preview on how it all started; I was arguably successful throughout my teenage years, enjoyed a few spells of fame, a national award, a trip to Europe, a top leadership position in a top High School and a good education. After my High School I realised two things.

1: That fame was a betrayer, it put me in a position where I partially believed I had it all yet in essence I had nothing. I had a negative net worth, no practical skills for surviving as an independent man and of-course no cash flow in my account.

2: That conformity is  a betrayer, I acted like the vast majority and where I did not, I acted as I was "expected" to act. In other words, people's expectations determined my goals, my choices and my actions. Let just say; I was a puppet to popular expectation.

You probably have asked your self the question I asked my self in the mid of 2012; "What do I want in life?" To me it come down to this;  "To be financially independent and be able to do the things I love to do". Do you have a similar goal? Do  you yearn for success? Do you desire to have a life of wealth, health and happiness? Then this is the place to be. You are probably asking questions of how, when.....name it but all this will be answered and just like Paul said in the Holy Book(Bible) I quote. "Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on........" So we are on a journey together. Let me put the record straight that am not "financially wealthy yet, in fact I am still heavy defendant on my loving and caring parents, I stay in a rental; a decent yrt humble residential,  am still in school(Law School) yet I find the subject of success closest to my heart than anything else. Well you may also be right to call me a curious type.

So after this realisation that I was not living my dreams, I finally made up my mind to dare the "impossible"  reach for my dreams. It began with a bold statement that I shared on my Facebook account which was followed by extraordinary events, occurrences, opportunities, challenges, heart breaks, learning and humbling experiences that I will gladly share with you. Lets just say say it was the day I made the DECISION to dare to give my dreams one more try. But first is the bold step about two years ago.

 "Friends, I have reached a point in my growth where the pain of remaining the same has outweighed the pain of change. A point when I can no longer afford to be defined by other people's expectations but rather my own. A time in my growth where the realisation that progress for me is no longer an option by rather the path on which I must trade.A point when the wise counsel of those that have been through it all, traded the path I so much desire to trade make sense. A point in my life when the words of the persons I so much admire, respect and look up to begin to sprout to life. A time when the words encoded on the most ancient of tablets and scrolls begin to manifest. A time when its more reasonable to depend on the light and direction of the stars whose presence guided all the generations before me and ignore the flash lights and flood lights of this present day.It has been an amazing experience working with you guys and my existence owes a lot to yours. But now I have to move on, yes! Today ; because much as you have always been there for me, time is almost due when I will be on my own.Reality has had a grip on me and a look at the inside tells me its not going to be an easy journey. I am confident that this is the time to brand myself with a brand identity that is here to stay, this is a time to prove myself not to the world but to me.Friends the world is easy to deceive, and it doesn't take an educated person to act, talk an live outside his own real self. I have not been this person but for the record, I think my life has largely been shaped, inspired and motivated by public opinion especially of those that I love the most.Friends, I have chosen my path now, deep in my heart am confident this is the direction I want my life to lead. I am probably going to hurt some people, disappoint some whose hopes, faith and trust in me was genuine.My world will go silent for a while, like I have lost the light, like the spark is no more. My world will undergo a reformation, a silent undertaking of a much anticipated realisation. Like I will be ignoring playing the main role, like am choosing to be the background.This is not self discovery, this is not soul searching. This is self definition.For all that have made my journey so far a reality, for those I hold so dear and closely to my heart, for those to whom I have made promises of a better me; THIS is for YOU. I will make you proud, I will not disappoint............for years I've been taught not to compromise my potential, not to play small, not to give up on my dreams, that everything is possible, that grab every opportunity because it only comes once, to live each day of my life like it was my last, to make sacrifices for the things I love and not to worry about tomorrow because it will worry about itself;Well that was then, and though I don't question, doubt or disregard these wise words of counsel, I have through this period learnt most importantly that  "The rest of my life will be spent in the future", therefore the future is a big deal and even though I have been taught not to worry about the future which to a an extent holds some truth, I've also learnt to plan for it.  Not to get into it with apprehension but with expectation.Some of you my friends have already taken the path am yet to follow; and for the record you are my real heroes. You have taught me a priceless lesson; How can I ever repay you? You've taught me  "to live life as it is not as it ought to be". I look up to you, you are my role models, I admire you, may God bless you.  I know one  day, on a beautiful calm and peaceful evening, we, together shall be sited on a round table overseeing the beautiful ocean in some part of the world  treating ourselves to a warm cup of tea. I will be there with u!For you my friends that are starting on this path as I am, I am sorry I have no advice for you because the path you have chosen is only an adventure on my part as of today. I only wish you the BEST. Hopefully we will meet somewhere on the way or better yet at the top."

Its been an exceedingly rewarding journey and today I can say with confidence that Its been worth it. May be the story shared relates so much with your own, maybe you want to know more. Well, part II or this post will include a list of the materials I read, the strategies I have used, the philosophies I've employed and the results I've registered so far. Please leave a comment if you are interested in getting in touch with me, remembered not to comment as  "anonoymous" is you want to get in touch with me. Am still working on my personal Professional Facebook page but in the meantime you can follow this link www.facebook.com/onesmus.ken